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Discernment in decision making

Making decisions not only on the basis of strategy but by listening together to the voice of the Holy Spirit. A White Book provision that protects against arbitrariness.

White Book provision

Discernment in the decision-making process. Authentic leadership does not rest only on strategies but on listening to the voice of the Holy Spirit. Communal discernment gives direction to decisions and protects against arbitrariness.

What discernment is

Discernment (Greek diakrisis, Latin discretio) is, in the Christian tradition, the ability to recognise what in a given situation comes from God and leads to the good. Saint Paul urges: “test everything; hold fast what is good” (1 Thess 5:21). Discernment does not replace thinking, analysis and decision making; it places them within prayer and obedience.

The Council of Jerusalem - a model

Acts describes the first great dispute in the Church - whether Gentile converts must keep the Law of Moses (Acts 15). The process includes presenting the problem, long debate, listening to testimonies (Peter, Barnabas, Paul), appeal to Scripture (James) and a common decision expressed as: “it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us” (Acts 15:28).

The Ignatian tradition

In the Spiritual Exercises Saint Ignatius of Loyola described rules for the discernment of spirits and three “times” for making a good choice. Communities often use simple steps:

  1. Formulate the question clearly and gather information.
  2. Inner freedom - ask for detachment from one's own preferences.
  3. Prayer and silence.
  4. Weigh the reasons for and against each option.
  5. Notice inner movements - peace or unrest, consolation or desolation.
  6. Decide and confirm the decision over time.

Communal discernment

The White Book stresses the communal dimension. Pope Francis, speaking of synodality, described “walking together”, which requires listening to everyone. A simple tool is the conversation in the Spirit, used during the 2021-2024 Synod on synodality: rounds of speaking without debate, silence, noticing what resonates, and only then shared conclusions.

What it protects against

  • the leader's arbitrariness, mistaking one's own ideas for God's will;
  • decision paralysis - discernment ends in a decision;
  • manipulation through spiritual language (“God told me” as a conversation-stopper).

See also team leadership.

Sources

White Book of Good Leadership Practices, provisions, bialaksiega.pl St Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises, nos. 169-189 (election), 313-336 (rules for discernment) Synod of Bishops, For a Synodal Church: Communion, Participation, Mission - Final Document, 2024 Acts 15:1-35; 1 Thess 5:21

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